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He is a man of power in your life. He might be your boss, the one whose desk you want to spread out across. He might be the police officer you want “frisking” you. Needless to say, he is the man holding all your cards…or cuffs. The Scorpio male can take one look at you, bore deep into your soul and know how to make you want him and do anything he asks, all without lifting a finger. Right out of a romance novel, he is mysterious and intense. Everything about him screams power: his emotions, his attitude and more importantly, his sexuality. The Scorpio male is a walking magnet and there is no fighting the attraction.
Why fight it? You are only fooling yourself. You want to know what is behind the intensity of his stare. You want to know what he is thinking. You want to know what it feels like under him as he rocks your body. And all he did was look you in your eyes without even speaking a word to you yet. Give in, give into him and let him take you along for his ride. Before you make a move, ask yourself how strong you really are. Can you act, feel and think with EVERY fiber of your being? If you can, then do yourself the favor and go get your Scorpio.
Do not be afraid to approach him. Instead of asking for his number, give him yours. Tell him how attractive you find him and if he wants a good time to call. Making the first move could very well turn him on and hook him right then and there. He likes confidence and bold sexuality in a partner. This lets him know that whatever may come, you are up for the task. When he does call, let him plan the date. Scorpio men are fascinating creatures so there is never a dull moment. Where they choose to take you out will be some sort of personal reflection of who they are.
Wherever you go on your date with him, give him your undivided attention. A Scorpio is a sucker for details and while you may not realize he is doing it, he is observing and documenting every single nuance of the evening. On your date, dress the part. You are on a date with a powerfully sensual man; keep that in mind when you dress. Accentuate your best features, low cut top if you have an ample bosom or snug fit pants if your ass is… well your best asset. If he can’t keep his eyes off your lips while you are speaking or his hand off your rear when you are walking, you have achieved your goal for that night.
Scorpios do not fall in love at first sight but when they do he won’t be able to get enough. He will want nothing but you both emotionally and physically, day and night. Consequently, the Scorpio man is one of the most impressive love-makers in the zodiac. Sexually, his passion in bed is unmatched and could be describe as soulful. The man could last for hours with proper stimulation and will use each minute to fulfill any fantasy you may have and more. When you have a sexual relationship with a Scorpio, there is no need for a gym membership. You will feel that delicious work out burn when you wake up every morning after a night with him.
Emotionally, you never doubt how much your Scorpio man adores you. Every fiber of your being will feel it. As your relationship matures and learns all he can about you, he will know just how to give you exactly what you need. Just understand that while they will give you all you need, they have to be in control of the relationship. Often times, it is this trait that is their undoing making them one of the most misunderstood signs in the zodiac. Do not take this need personally unlike many before you who probably have.
Scorpios are much like the animal that represents them, calculating and unpredictable. He will plan his moves carefully, never wasting time, but never rushing. All of his relationships will more than likely follow this pattern. They are very private by nature and independent. At times it is misunderstood to be secretive and deceptive. Just like the arachnid that represents them, they do not sting unless you have threatened them in some way. Otherwise he is direct and passionate. Because of their intuitive natures, he understands his partner’s needs and will do his best to meet them. He can be hard to handle, but will make his partner feel like the center of the universe… so long as their partner is loyal.
Scorpios take themselves and their relationships very seriously. To keep them you must do the same. Be affectionate and open towards him. This and your sensitivity will appeal to his emotions but carry on only if you want a close relationship with him. Do not attempt to lead him on if you are not ready for a long and meaningful relationship. Toying with a Scorpio male is an unwise move. Throw the games out the window. This means no playing on their jealous nature or anything that will put them on the defensive. They do not forgive and forget, their sting will be vindictive and he will destroy your core.
The Scorpio is the sign of extremes and intensity. For them it is all or nothing. They are very deep, passionate people and there is more to them than what you see on the surface. Lying underneath is tremendous power, a very passionate sexuality and strength of character. Scorpio men make excellent protectors and you will always feel safe and loved. The person that he falls for will be treated with remarkable compassion, absolute loyalty and vast generosity. The relationship you will have with your Scorpio will be just as strong and binding as the magnetism that drew you to him.
I preface this article by saying if you are interested in a Scorpio woman, congratulations you must have balls of steel. She is THE most explosive sign in the zodiac. Her intensity can really only be matched by the fire signs of the zodiac but even there she gives them a run for their money. She is fierce both emotionally and physically but is not one to toy with at all. You play games and she will win. She will win and leave you in the corner crying for your momma.
Usually I like to write in full disclosure and give you both the up and down sides of a sign, I think it’s only fair. This particular sign – this gender, makes me want to tell you to pull up a chair while I make a pair of drinks. She is just like the arachnid that represents her; rub her the wrong way, threaten her or her surroundings and you are dead where you stand. There is no room to maneuver, for a Scorpio woman it either is or it isn’t. Are you ready for her, really ready? Once you enter her arena, you don’t leave unless she tells you to.
She is full of finesse and mystery. Your Scorpio is an enthralling woman with a very strong A-type personality. She is just the right level of challenge and gives you just the right amount of rewards. Scorpio’s are both highly emotional and highly intuitive. This gives her the uncanny ability to sniff out bullshit the second it is thought. Save yourself the time, save yourself the embarrassment and keep it real when you approach your Scorpion queen.
Though she would be very happy in a committed relationship, she won’t give her heart very easily. She may have trust issues; it is likely she has been hurt a time or two. Therefore any potential mate will have to go through a series of trials in order to get to the relationship stage. Just like the Libra before her, conversation and genuine class will get you everywhere. Open a dialogue with her, keep her comfortable and relaxed, you have your foot in the door.
Scorpios have a vast array of interests. Some they openly share and others you will have to be around a while before you find out about them. Nothing is too taboo or off limits for them. They are very open to new experiences and would love to pick up a new passion. They love passion; in fact they are attracted to it. The more passionate you are about something, the more she will admire you. Incorporate your passions in your conversations with her. Let her talk but do not force subjects, she will reveal all in due time.
Hopefully you paid complete attention during your initial conversation with her. Planning your date accordingly should be easy then if you had. Does not matter where you take her, just be there with her. She is watching you when you least expect it. Be genuine in your attention and show you want her there with you. Besides giving her your undivided attention, take advantage of her sexual nature and touch her during your conversations. Hold her hand, thumb circles on her wrists or maybe even brush her arm but randomly touching her is surely on the path to seducing her.
Scorpio women are both fire and ice. She expects you to give 100% and is more than capable of matching you tit for tat. By now if you have had a few dates with her you understand what I mean by intensity and passion. You find yourself falling deep for a woman you may barely know but she is so very captivating you don’t care. Once she knows she has you, she is going to want ALL of you. You’ve now engaged a sensual and possessive lover who will want you both body and soul. She will love you with the same intensity she carries herself with. Just hold on tight, she will take care of you.
Sex with a Scorpio woman — there are really no true words to define it. I can wax poetic with the same words I have used: intensity, passionate and fierce but none quite cover it. You need to experience it. She burns your skin yet cools you, turns you on so hot and quenches your desire. They radiate sexuality and have healthy imaginations. They aren’t afraid of experimenting and do not be afraid to share your wild fantasies. You have a BDSM itch or an outdoor kink – she might have it too. Once she mates with you, you will easily give yourself over and let her keep you.
Remember that drink I offered you earlier… see I have good news and not so good news. The good news is that she is not clingy. She likes her private time and independence. You will never have to worry about her manipulating your time. The not so good news is that if you betray her trust and you might as well kiss your ass goodbye. Scorpios have a vindictive streak that really a wonder to witness. You would admire it if it wasn’t directed at you. Just keep in mind for better or for worse, as long as you stay honest with her, you can never do her wrong.
Though it is really the key to any relationship, open honest communication is the key to keeping yourself out of the path of your Scorpio’s stinger. Maybe you got too ahead of yourself and realize she is in a league not of your own but you can’t get her out of your head. Tell her what you want, whether open relationship or booty call, whatever you want to call it but just tell her. I hate to see you decimated by her wrath because you got cold feet. In all honesty, do not let this or her intimidate you. She is the woman who will awake your senses, take you to new heights, make you feel more alive and loved than you ever have. The thin line you walk is worth it to have all her and all the rewards in the end.